Thursday, September 22, 2011

This is long but I really need advice?

I broke up with my ex 6 months ago for taking me for granted and her causing pointless arguments. For 3 months we had no contact and then for some reason I felt the need to contact her. In the past 3 months we have become really good friends, and I can see a huge change in her. She is happier, more secure and more mature. We rarely argue and when we do there is an actual reason and she is willing to compromise or admit when she is wrong. Basically shes the girl I fell in love with even better. We are both single and we constantly flirt and the feelings are definately coming back for me.



I talked to her about how different she seems in a positive way and she said she needed to take a step back and realize on her own and want to change for herself and not someone else. I am so proud of her and in a little shock she actually changed. I am starting to fall for her again should I tell her and is it an okay idea?This is long but I really need advice?
basically thats the cutest thing ever.

and she probably subconsciously changed for you too.

although i've never been one for getting back with ex's, this seems a little different, esp. if you talk and flirt. as usual, make sure your sure that the signs say she feels the same way. then sure go for it, talk about it. say like wanna give it another try?This is long but I really need advice?
It seems fine. Just talk to her about it because u seem to be close.This is long but I really need advice?
I think its okay to tell her but juz make sure she still has the same spark for u like wat u have for her. try telling her bit by bit cuz maybe if u tell her everything straight away she mite freak out and distance herself away from u becuase she might be confused. Anyways could u also answer the question i have? i desperately need helpThis is long but I really need advice?
This is a great question. In my opinion, the feelings coming back to you deserve to be honored, meaning you should tell her how you feel. Basically, just tell her what you typed in the 'Question' text box.

If you honestly feel this way about her, then yes. I think she deserves to be told, and you may owe it to yourself that you give her another shot. Good luck with the relationship!This is long but I really need advice?
yeah its an okay idea. just keep in mind how she used to be, i mean, just dont let her go back to her old ways in the futre. but if shes changed for herself than itd probably be permanent and if shes happier than before thats awesome.

tell her, if shes been flirting with you than she probably feels the same way, because girls generally dont flirt with their exes unless they still like them.

go for it. you've got nothing to loose....