Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Ramadan: help? How can i change?

I'm becoming (or become) a racist. I especially despise whites and WILL NOT talk to a white boy. In addition, as a black Jamaican, i have a BIG prob with black Africans, i cannot help but complain and make remarks about them and see myself as a Jamaican as a better black guy. I also dislike contemporary Arab culture with a passion and find them inhumane and barbaric. Sorry to offend, i don't wanna hurt no one, i wanna change. I wish i could have a device fit in me that, everytime i thought or said a racist thing, i would receive an electric shock. How can i change?



NOTE: Again, no offence to anyone here, and apart from these three groups, i actually LOVE all other people.Ramadan: help? How can i change?
Ouch :''(Ramadan: help? How can i change?
%26quot;...and see myself as a Jamaican as a better black guy.%26quot;



If you hate the attitude of Iblis then you should hate what you just said. How dare you think you're better than anyone because of their race?



Lastly, look at your language. Filthy.

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Oh and PS. Saying I'm sorry that's just how I feel doesn't mean you didn't just offend millions of people.

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dont forget those pakis!!!



yeah arab girls are more moodier and fiesty i like thatRamadan: help? How can i change?
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Wow... Hater... It's okay... pray and you might get better or talk to a shrink. ^-^Ramadan: help? How can i change?
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you noe wat i meanRamadan: help? How can i change?
Know that Allah (s.w.t) created us all from dirt..

not one is better than the other..Ramadan: help? How can i change?
%26quot;Do unto others how you would like others unto you%26quot;



which means, treat people how you would like to be treated.



How would you feel if someone hated Black Jamacains with a passion?Ramadan: help? How can i change?
Ouch, dang!O_oRamadan: help? How can i change?
so what other race do you have something against?

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you seem to have an anger problem too..chill kid and watch your filthy mouthRamadan: help? How can i change?
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I dont know how to make you stop hating them.

But just know mabey Allah prefers some of them over you.

And do not see yourself as better,even if you have an atoms size of arrogance in your heart you will not enter Jannah.



*O you who believe! Let not a group scoff at another group, it may be that the latter are better than the former*; nor let

women scoff at other women, it may be that the latter are better than the former, nor defame one another, nor insult one another by nicknames. How bad is it, to insult ones brother after having Faith (i.e. to call your Muslim brother (a faithful believer) as: %26quot;O sinner%26quot;, or %26quot;O wicked%26quot;, etc.). And whosoever does not repent, then such are indeed Zalimoon (wrong-doers, etc.).(49:11)



Adam(peace be upon him) is your father he is my father and he is everyone else's father,why would you hate your brother in humanity when you have the same father?Ramadan: help? How can i change?
roo7 3ala jeehanam

translation:go to hell dumbieRamadan: help? How can i change?
Assalamu alaikum. Yes certainly you can change your racialist feeling if you have the hard willingness to get rid off it and you understand well the Qur'an and practise it in your daily life.

In substance Allah in the Qur'an hates racialism,because Allah has created humans in various races,tribes,ethnics with different languages,cultures,skin colors for enriching them and for making the prosperous society so we should respect,love and help each other..

We are the same infront of Allah.The only difference is on our own taqwa. whether we are obedient to Allah who has created us and has given us the last updated life guide in the form of the Qur'an and hadith of Muhammad pbuh.If we practise it insya Allah we will not be a racialist.Ramadan: help? How can i change?
May peace be upon you.



Calm down, I don't think Ramallah meant to insult you. They're only quoting the Quran where Iblis wrongs his own soul and disobeys God because of his arrogance and pride. He thinks that he is better than humans because he is made of fire and we of clay. Many have related racism or discrimination to the pride of Iblis. Without pride or arrogance, there cannot be racism or discrimination. Take it to heart, don't become defensive.



Aside from your racism, I can see that you can't take criticism. Stop insulting people and try to react calmly. It's pride that leads people to react so angrily.



You know what a Muslim is - we are submitters to God's will. God created Adam and Eve, from whom all humans came from. We're all the same and equal, except when it comes to religion. And only God knows who is rightly guided. So we cannot judge others as if we are better than them. Only God can judge us, He is the best of Judges.



Truly, the best way to change your view on the world is by reading the Quran, regularly. After reading it, I often feel as though many things are brought into perspective. As Muslims, it is good for us to read the Quran at dawn (perhaps after fajr prayer) as it says in the Quran. Please read the Quran regularly. And read in earnest, absorbing every sentence.



To change your ways, you should be able to change the way you view others and the world. No one is better than the other. Not all Arab men are sexist, whites should not be despised, and black Africans are not beneath you (remember, your black ancestors were black Africans). Challenge yourself and your ideas. Talk to a white person and even make friends with a white male. Talk to a black African and get to know his/her culture. Talk to an Arab male and find out what that individual's perspective is. By getting to know more people of these groups, you will see that each are not what you think them to be. There are so many Arab countries, they do differ in culture. There are 53 countries is Africa (most of them predominantly black), surely there may be individuals who have some admirable qualities. I'm guessing that you live in America, where the population is predominantly white or maybe some other similar country. Surely there must be some people who you have some things in common and who would be great friends.



Subhan Allah, it's great you want to change and I hope that God may help you, Inshaa Allah.Ramadan: help? How can i change?
Be humble and always be friendly with everyone.