We are both religious. He's turning 24 next month; I'm 25. Last week we confessed our feelings for each other. We are both v busy and he was studying to get some certificate. However, he managed to call me every day, check on me, ask me about my day and everything in my life, tell me how much he cares, remind me of his feelings and tell me how much he appreciates me and how much I mean to him. Wednesday we went on a date, he pampered me, he was incredible and we had great time, he said that he's taking this relationship seriously. The following day at work (yes, he's my colleague) everything was great until he started talkign no sense and he broke u with me. I talked to him after work, I was poised, not emotional, no questions asked, no accusations, simply listening to what he has to say. He explained that everything has a purpose and that he doesnt want to say something then break my heart!!! He kept asking if i had questions I said %26quot;no, you decided you dont want to be with me, what is there to say%26quot; which upset him even more. He kept pushing me into talking until I explained that I was going to see how things between us go and maybe then we would take the next step. So he told me he cant take the next step.
Today I found him online, he asked me if I was shocked!!! I changed the subject by asking how he was. He asked me what I did yesterday. I assume he wants me to say I cried on my best friend's shoulder so I explained I went out with a guy friend to check some laptops and computer stuff.
Why did he contact me one day after our break up? I was on fb, he didnt need to talk to me. Is he feeling guilty? Or did he expect me to break down and beg him not to leave? I didnt do thats and I'm not going to. How will I face him at work? He told me online that he has the soundtrack of my favourite movie and will give it to me after the weekend. Why giving me a soundtrack???Broke up with me then expecting me to do what?
He is going no where. He is young and immature and playing games with you. Don't talk to him. Make him wait this one out on you as he ended it all after confessing his love for you. He is extremely childish. Maybe he will grow out of that.
Good Luck with this one.Broke up with me then expecting me to do what?
That is one loooong question.Broke up with me then expecting me to do what?
Sounds like he's playing games to me.Broke up with me then expecting me to do what?
Wow. I'm confused too. It's almost like he is testing you. You're handling it quite well, I am very impressed. Tell him to stop giving you mixed signals and leave you alone. He broke up with you, he needs to deal with it. This is what he wanted, he made his bed, and now you want to get on with your life. Tell him you will talk about work matters and be civil to him when at work, but that is it.Broke up with me then expecting me to do what?
Wow I think he is emotionally unstable %26amp; doesn't know what he wants also yes he is totally playing games with your head.Broke up with me then expecting me to do what?
Sounds like he feels bad about breaking up with you, not because he wants you back, but because he didn't mean to hurt you. He's trying to maintain a friendship, because he probably does appreciate you . He offered you the sountrack because he knows you like it. No big thing. If you want it, take it. If you'd rather not be friends, don't take it. Facing him at work is not a problem. He's just not ready for a relationship. Accept that and treat him like you would any other co worker. He could have strung you along, like a lot of guys do. Instead, he told you the truth, so be glad of that. There should be no hard feelings here. Nothing you did has caused this. The man is just not ready.Broke up with me then expecting me to do what?
It Sounds like he broke up with you for a reason he isn't telling you because he's too afraid to tell you
If he didn't care about you he wouldn't of bought you a gift and checked to see if your alright
I think there is something he's not telling you, something that maybe he doesn't feel comfortable telling you..
When he asked if you had any questions, i think he was hoping you'd ask him something to where he could open up to you and hopefully fix things.
Ask him whats wrong, don't just let it go like that, there is obviously something more and if you fix it you can save your relationship with him =)
